I was at Burning Man for about three months. Okay, not really, but it felt that way. I’d talk with my camp mates about something that had happened a few days before and we’d joke that it was six weeks ago.
And it was a good thing! How did it happen? Because I was in the present. Pretty much the whole time.
I did get pretty overstimulated initially by the weather, the constant music, all the new people and not being able to sleep enough. At that point, I really wanted time to speed up, for it to be over.
But I adjusted, with the help of some fantastic camp mates. And then I got into the flow. Time went away. There was day and night still, but nothing had to happen at a particular time. Only a few things had to happen at all: eating, drinking water, putting on sunblock, sleeping (not optional for me ;)).
Everything else was extra, a wonderful bonus. Time never ran out. It didn’t feel slow, it just was always plentiful. Conversations flowed. Great ideas for excursions bubbled up. Everywhere we went was just the right place, until we went somewhere else. It was a magical feeling.
Wouldn’t it be great to feel that way now, at home (in the “default world”)? Here are some ways you can:
- Keep your to do list short and do-able. Yes, you have too much to do, but putting it all on today’s list isn’t going to get it done. It will just make you crazy.
- Do things well enough. Forget about making hospital corners on your bed in the morning when just pulling up the duvet will suffice. Overdoing it is usually not about making it better anyway. It’s about being afraid of doing it wrong. Well enough is not wrong.
- Let things be. Most of the time, you don’t have any control over how things play out. You’ve done your part well (see above). Now stop.
Welcome to the present. Pull up a chair and stay awhile.
Hammock swinging from Meagan’s photostream.